Almost 3 years I have been living in this damn society which is full of unnecessary condemnation. 

University is supposed to be a fun life with entertaining experiences and also peers who help one another in trying to be a better human being for the sake of future. 

But no, it does not work that way as I stepped into my university life.
Real life is different from what I think. Minor condemnation exist during university. 

It is not what I have bargained for but hey, the good thing is I have learned a lot. 

I have been living in a world where most of the people condemning things that are not worth while.

Everything that you do will be judged and criticized.

You do all the right things everytime. But once you make a silly mistake, people will be fast enough to condemn the wrong things that you do. 

It's like they are waiting for the perfect time to degrade you.

The most disappointing thing that I have observed from people around me and their experiences is it comes from their so called bestfriends. Claiming to be bestfriends, but backbiting behind their back? 

Such a major let down. 

When your friends make mistakes, you should ask them whether it is true and if it is, listen to them first the reason they are doing it.

Telling them what is right and what is wrong. Not put a label on them and back biting them behind their back. 

Other than that, people are so expert and so quick to point out the wrongs of others. 

For example, it's based on one of my friends experience. She was always hanging out with her male bestfriends. She's not religious enough but she knew the rules when being with male friends like cannot touch each other and all. She practiced the principle. The thing is, people were quick enough to jump into conclusion that she's playing around with them. Condemned her from afar without really knew the truth.

It is not always mean that when one is hanging out with their opposite gender friends, they are together. 

I also had an experience where people quick to judge me as gay just because they condemned my action of pushing away boys and ignoring having love relationship. 

Duhh I want a HUSBAND not someone who just wanted me for fun. 

And in fact, I have tooooooo many flaws. I'm still in the process of preparing myself to be a wife and mother. I'm still far from being ready. 

You could have think about that excuse but you were quick to say that I am gay? Haha

Be surprised when I get married with a MAN before you do. Aha!

Talking about gay people. Just because they are gay, society think that they are bad and the lowest human being ever.

But from what I have seen, apart from being gay, they are much more kind hearted than we are. They
are more loyal than we are. The only wrong thing is that they are gay.

It's not that I support LGBT. 

But we should do the correct way. 

Our Prophet Muhammad pbuh, advice people with love, kindness and wise words. 

So pray that one day Allah will open their heart and give them hidayah to change and make amend of their wrongdoing. Who knows that when they have changed, they might be ten times better than us?  

Hope is always there for them to change. (Oh by the way, you should read Naruto who never tried to give up on his hope and believe that his friend will change. Inspiring, to me la haha)

With only condemning other people, you can ruin other people's life because you spread the rumours without knowing the truth. 

Why mind other people's business? You are not that great too. 

We, human, have a lof of scarcity. We think that we have done more than enough to be classified as the right action and kind but do we really think that?

Have you ever thought that Allah might not think so?
 Because He, the Most All-Knowing knows what is inside of our heart. He knows whether we are sincere or the other way round.

Who are we to condemn other human being when we have too many flaws?

Just try to fix ourselves first and help each other in trying to be a better person.

It's not that we cannot condemn at all. 

We can condemn but find concrete evidence and also do it in a right way with a right purpose. For example, when Tun Dr M condemned the Jews for their inhuman act. 

Do it because it helps people.

Not because you are simply trying to find fault in others and enjoying watching other people's life falling apart.